Book Overview and Author Background
"The Royal Butler: My Remarkable Life in Royal Service" was published on August 28, 2025 by Orion Publishing (UK edition) and Pegasus Books (US edition).
Author Grant Harrold (born April 26, 1978) is from a working-class family in Airdrie, Scotland, and grew up fascinated by the British Royal Family, dreaming of working for them. He is now widely known as Britain's "foremost authority on etiquette."
The Book's Publication Details
The US edition is published by Pegasus Books (distributed by Simon & Schuster), released on September 23, 2025. It is a hardcover of 272 pages, ISBN 9798897100156, with a list price of $29.95 (some sources cite a UK Orion Publishing edition dated August 28, 2025).
The memoir traces his path from a childhood fascination with the monarchy to butler life at Highgrove House, recounting the relationship between the royals and their staff, and matters of etiquette, as "untold stories."

It's as if we were in two different households.
Royal Career and Duties
Harrold served as butler to Prince Charles (now King Charles III) for seven years from 2004 to 2011. His primary workplace was Highgrove House, the royal residence in the Cotswolds, where he served King Charles III and Queen Camilla, Prince William and Princess Catherine, and Prince Harry.
On special occasions, he had the honor of serving as butler to Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip, gaining the highest level of experience as a royal butler.
Memoir Content and Unique Perspective
The book reveals previously untold stories about the unique relationship between the Royal Family and their staff. It details how a working-class boy reached the heart of the Royal Family, daily life at Highgrove House, interactions with royal members, and friendships and teamwork with fellow staff.
It also candidly discusses close encounters with celebrities and world leaders, and perks such as first-class travel and fine dining, presenting the reality of being a royal butler without reservation.
Social Impact and Current Activities
Following the book's publication, Grant Harrold has approximately 1 million social media followers, recording 3-9 million monthly interactions across Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and Facebook.
He currently operates under "The Royal Butler" brand, running an etiquette school. Through educational business leveraging his royal experience, he continues activities to widely communicate the value and importance of butler services to society.
Reported Royal Anecdotes and Current Work
Reported anecdotes include dancing with Queen Elizabeth II at the Balmoral Ghillies Ball in 2005 and being pelted with a water balloon by Prince Harry, candidly portraying staff camaraderie and an informal side of royal life.
Harrold left Highgrove House in May 2011 (his role made redundant) and now works as "The Royal Butler," an etiquette expert, media commentator and speaker, appearing aboard cruise lines including Cunard, Princess Cruises and Seabourn.

Critical Reception and Notable Topics
Kirkus Reviews praised the book as "an enjoyable memoir of a royal servant," commenting that "service in aristocratic households demands as much drudgery as skill, but he remains starry-eyed throughout, recounting friendships and camaraderie with fellow workers, occasional pranks, and perks."
Notably, Harrold states in the book that his memories differ greatly from Prince Harry's portrayal of the Royal Family in his memoir "Spare." While Harrold remembers them as a "happy family," Prince Harry depicts struggles, commenting "it's as if we were in two different households."


